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The Intimate Introvert on Sacred Introvert Space

By |2015-09-22T16:06:09-05:00July 9th, 2014|Categories: Emotions and Energy, Guest Posts, Introverts and Highly Sensitive People, Personal Evolution, Relationships|Tags: , , , |

I've found a new place to go deeper — Sacred Introvert Space. I guarantee you will feel at home there as well. Sacred Introvert's creator, Lisa Avebury, is an introverted kindred spirit. I've written a piece entitled, The Intimate Introvert, for this beautiful community. Sacred Introvert encourages your participation. If you want to write for SI just [...]

Where’d My Energy Go? 12 Causes of Over-Arousal for the Introvert and/or Highly Sensitive Person

By |2015-10-21T14:02:50-05:00July 4th, 2014|Categories: Guest Posts, Introverts and Highly Sensitive People|Tags: , , , , , , |

As an introvert and sensitive person, I am vigilantly mindful of my energy and where it slips to, but some days even I don't know why I feel so drained. My UK writer friend, Andy Mort of SheepDressedLikeWolves.com, sent me this post about discovering his own sensitivity and subsequently figuring out some of the subtle and not [...]

Are You More Masculine or Feminine Right Now? What Inspires You, Praise or a Challenge?

By |2015-09-22T16:06:09-05:00June 27th, 2014|Categories: Emotions and Energy, Introverts and Highly Sensitive People, Personal Evolution, Relationships|Tags: , , , , , |

    The masculine grows by challenge, but the feminine grows by praise.                 — David Deida, The Way of the Superior Man Not submissive. Not macho. According to spiritual and sexual author and guru, David Deida, the feminine essence (which both men and women possess) refers to the part of [...]

Dating Deeply: Will You Go Intimate with Me?

By |2015-09-22T16:06:10-05:00June 20th, 2014|Categories: Introverts and Highly Sensitive People, Personal Evolution, Relationships|Tags: , , , , |

My last relationship ended before it got serious. He stopped putting energy into it before we were fully intimate, fully trusting, deeply involved. In my opinion, it ended on the edge of amazing. I have a desire to go deep. To wander into an intimacy that provides a safe place to be wild, quiet, emotional, sexual and above all, [...]

I Feel People and They Feel Me: The Blessing and Curse of Feeling Deeply

By |2016-02-11T10:18:23-06:00June 13th, 2014|Categories: Emotions and Energy, Introverts and Highly Sensitive People, Intuitive Living, Personal Evolution, Relationships|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , |

I witnessed a lot of pain this week. The kind where people curl up fetally and ache deeply. The kind where they cry until they are numb and limp. People are fragile. Physically, mentally and spiritually. True, people are strong and endure magnificently as well, but this week was about fragility. This week was exhausting. I'd never [...]

Communicating As an Introvert: The Intimacy of Written Words and Inner Worlds

By |2015-09-22T16:06:10-05:00June 6th, 2014|Categories: Introverts and Highly Sensitive People, Relationships|Tags: , , , , , , , |

If you cannot feel me through my written words Then you will never grasp me in person For my words are the architecture of my inner most parts. Secret things hung out to dry in front of you. —Scaffold of Words, The Impetaurian Francesca Woodman, Untitled, New York, 1979-1980. Gelatin silver print. Francesca Woodman page [...]

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