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Does Your Partner Accept Your Influence? The Importance of Sharing Decision-Making in a Relationship

Introverts and Highly Sensitive People, Personal Evolution, Processing Divorce, Relationships

Does Your Partner Accept Your Influence? The Importance of Sharing Decision-Making in a Relationship

By Brenda Knowles|2018-10-31T11:59:21-05:00November 2nd, 2018|Categories: Introverts and Highly Sensitive People, Personal Evolution, Processing Divorce, Relationships|Tags: conflict, contempt, divorce, dominance, influence, John Gottman, Marriage, power, relationships, Robert Sapolsky, Stress, The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work|

I recently figured out one of the striking blows that destroyed my marriage. During the last five years of our marriage, I did not feel like my words or actions were given any credence in conversations, problem-solving or decision-making. My husband did not accept my influence. I hope by casting light on this common issue, someone [...]

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This is me. This is me from the day I was born. For so long I felt misunderstood and rejected, even by the people closest to me, because they could never understand my need for solitude, and I had no idea how to explain it to them. Even now that I know more about Introversion and have a more informed understanding of my hard-wired need for solitude, it’s still very difficult sometimes to help my loved ones understand this profound craving for time and space all to myself. This is one of the best… Read more

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Does Your Partner Accept Your Influence? The Importance of Sharing Decision-Making in a Relationship

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