Parenting as a sensitive and/or introverted person.

Is It Time to Tweak Your Recipe for Life?

By |2016-03-19T16:41:19-05:00November 18th, 2011|Categories: Emotions and Energy, Parenting|Tags: , , , , |

I like to have a recipe. I can make anything with a recipe.  I'm not afraid to try exotic dishes or difficult techniques, as long as they are spelled out.  I could follow the instructions of an old-world Italian lady and make some fabulous gnocchi but I would beg her to write down the steps so [...]

The Universe Provides: Treasure Found at a Flea Market

By |2015-09-22T16:07:18-05:00November 11th, 2011|Categories: Emotions and Energy, Parenting|Tags: , , , , |

It' Sunday morning.  I am in sweats. A bandana covers my unshowered hair.  I desperately need to run; be on the trails working through my thoughts in cathedral quiet woods, but my kids have other plans.  Let's go to the flea market, they beg.  It's the last one for the season, they say. It is not [...]

The Sweetness of Self-Reliance:How One Married Mom-Lady Found Her Way Home

By |2015-09-22T16:07:18-05:00October 21st, 2011|Categories: Emotions and Energy, Introverts and Highly Sensitive People, Parenting|Tags: , , , , , , |

The soul grounds us and the spirit frees us to soar.  ~ James Jordan, The Musician's Spirit I constantly dream about my college years and my time as a singleton living in Chicago.  It's as if my subconscious is stuck in my early twenties.  In my dreams, I am on endless walks across vast green campuses [...]

What If Schools Put Character Building First and Standardized Tests Second?

By |2015-09-22T16:07:19-05:00September 9th, 2011|Categories: Parenting, Popular Posts|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , |

Atticus Finch and Tom Robinson in 1962's movie To Kill a Mockingbird True excellence takes sacrifice, mistakes, and enormous amounts of effort. ~ Rafe Esquith  What if schools focused more on each child’s character development and less on standardized tests?   Rafe Esquith author of Teach Like Your Hair is On Fire uses Lawrence [...]

Is It Selfish to Choose Passion and Work Over Family?

By |2015-09-22T16:07:20-05:00August 19th, 2011|Categories: Introverts and Highly Sensitive People, Parenting, Popular Posts|Tags: , , , , , , |

   …we did spend a good part of our income on household help.  I don’t regret that at all.  Baby-sitters allowed me to preserve my sanity, to the extent that I have it.  I always had at least three hours in the morning to write.  I couldn’t have given up writing.  I think I could have [...]

Short Little Spans of Attention

By |2015-09-22T16:07:20-05:00August 5th, 2011|Categories: Introverts and Highly Sensitive People, Parenting, Popular Posts|Tags: , , , , , , , , |

These are not my children. Never too early to start a technology addiction... I can’t reach my kids.  And I think I know why.  They have the attention spans of minnows.  I can’t say that only children have this problem.  We adults are just as bad with our iPhones and web browsing.  Hell, I [...]

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