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Worried About Being ‘Too Much’ in a Relationship: High Sensitivity and the Relational Paradox

By Brenda Knowles|2016-10-23T20:11:17-05:00October 21st, 2016|Categories: Emotions and Energy, Introverts and Highly Sensitive People, Intuitive Living, Personal Evolution, Relationships|Tags: Amy Banks, authenticity, DaCC, fear, highly sensitive, HSP, relational paradox, relationships, Wired to Connect|

Relational paradox: When convinced a relationship won't tolerate who you really are, you leave a part of you out of that relationship. When I read the description of a relational paradox in Dr. Amy Banks' book, Wired for Connection:The Surprising Link Between Brain Science and Strong, Healthy Relationships, a lightbulb went on in my head. The [...]

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