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I’d Rather Not Compete With You:For Introverts or Anyone Who Prefers Excellence Over Dominance

By Brenda Knowles|2015-10-20T17:52:46-05:00October 26th, 2012|Categories: Introverts and Highly Sensitive People, Parenting, Personal Evolution, Relationships|Tags: Collaborative Competition, competition, Introversion, introvert traits, introverts and competition, Kathryn Mayer, Nancy Ancowitz, perfectionism and introversion, Self-Promotion for Introverts: The Quiet Guide to Getting Ahead|

Not a FIGHTER. Be my friend, lover or family member but please don’t be my competitor. I will run from you if I feel you are in any way interested in one-upping me. This is the ultimate turn off for me. I will not relax in your presence. I understand that competition is invigorating [...]

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