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For the first time in my life I could truly explain, through your words the way in which I experience life and myself. Brenda… It all fell into place. I had found myself and had such a moment of clarity. It felt like such a big weight was lifted off of my shoulders. Finally I felt like it was ok to be me. I was not the only one. I had found people and a little space where I fit in. … I was at work and crying on the inside. Emotions ran wild inside me. I was ecstatic, sad, confused, motivated, i…
Your site has saved my sanity and my life. Maybe even my marriage. I work part time and have two young boys at home, my husband is supportive of me but until recently I thought I was going crazy. … Reading your writing not only inspires me to pick up the pen again, but gives me nourishment in the deepest places. I will fight for balance. Everything you write is spot on… And wellness is so incredibly multifaceted.  I was ready to give up hope, but understanding myself through your words is bring…
BRENDA: thank you SO much! Your advice is exactly what I need to do. I am amazed how much you “get” me after only exchanging a few messages!… Again, I thank you from the bottom of my heart. You’ve helped me more than a year of therapy sessions! – Megan on space2live
You’re so honest in your writing. It’s bold. It’s frank. It’s wonderful. I could definitely see the work you are doing here as a useful book. It could save/make a lot of relationships! — Jimmi Langemo
Jimmi Langemo
During one of the harder times in my life I found Brenda’s website
and reached out to her. To say the least it has been one of the best
decisions I have made. Being an extrovert I never quite understood
what it meant to romantically involved with an introvert. Brenda does
an incredible job listening, giving in the moment feedback, and helped
me understand the how an introvert functions. She helped explain to me
that I am introspective extrovert, and this gave something to identify
with and allowed me t…
Evan H.
This is me. This is me from the day I was born. For so long I felt misunderstood and rejected, even by the people closest to me, because they could never understand my need for solitude, and I had no idea how to explain it to them. Even now that I know more about Introversion and have a more informed understanding of my hard-wired need for solitude, it’s still very difficult sometimes to help my loved ones understand this profound craving for time and space all to myself. This is one of the best…
That courage and dedication you so generously share with the world, has inspired me to push myself a little harder, persevere at each task a little longer, dig a little bit deeper to where the answers just “feel” right to both my humanity AND my spirit. Your insights have reinforced my direction and given me additional tools that help me clear my path. I’m wired into my creativity as never before and the new music is pouring out of me faster than I can record and produce it; this is the Un…
THANK YOU….. you just summed up my swirling thoughts into something i can read with out everything else in my head meshing with it. I finally feel like i can explain what happens within without getting distracted. I’m an Introvert with ADD and it makes it so hard to explain quite what im feeling sometimes. — M.G. on space2live
I met Brenda and took the MBTI… I had a fairly good understanding of these types before the meeting but was impressed by the depth of knowledge that Brenda shared with me. She clearly has a passion for this work and a gift in imparting the information. There have been doors opened for me because of our talks… — Alan Hintermeister
Alan Hintermeister

“I was struggling with my daughter (16 at the time) and our constant fighting. You said something to me that changed my life! You were speaking about your own situation and you said to me “my child could not handle my emotions”. This was a HUGE “lightbulb moment” for me and it forever changed the way I dealt with my emotions when I was around my daughter!

I am happy to say that things have never been better between my soon to be 18 year old daughter and myself! I honestly never thought we would…

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Mark and me


Hi Everyone! The wedding was perfect and beautiful. We had so much fun with our friends and family. It’s lovely to be married again.

I thought I would share a few photos.

Mark and me


First dance


bouquet toss

Bouquet toss


Delightfully happy and in love,


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  1. Live & Learn July 30, 2019 at 5:17 am - Reply

    Beautiful Brenda. Best of luck to you and Mark.

    • Brenda Knowles July 31, 2019 at 12:45 pm - Reply

      Thank you David. We were in NYC for our honeymoon. We may have passed on the street.:)

  2. Laura July 29, 2019 at 1:04 pm - Reply

    So happy for you- you bring so much happiness to us, your readers, lovely to see you happy in love

    • Brenda Knowles July 31, 2019 at 12:47 pm - Reply

      Thank you Laura! It’s wonderful to be able to share happy news.

  3. roberthagedorn1 July 29, 2019 at 12:11 pm - Reply


    • Brenda Knowles July 31, 2019 at 12:45 pm - Reply

      Thank you!

  4. Cheryl Carlson July 29, 2019 at 11:09 am - Reply

    Beautiful Brenda! Thank you for sharing this very happy part of your life with all of us 🙂 We celebrate with you!!!!

    • Brenda Knowles July 29, 2019 at 11:30 am - Reply

      Thank you Cheryl! My readers have been with me through ups and downs. It’s nice to be able to share really good news. Yes, please celebrate with me/us! 🙂

  5. Nico July 29, 2019 at 9:05 am - Reply

    Congrats and all the best to you and your family ever after! 🙂 A lovely couple!

    • Brenda Knowles July 29, 2019 at 11:28 am - Reply

      Thank you Nico! So kind. 🙂

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