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Are You Part of the Pecking Order or Are You Marking Your Territory?

By Brenda Knowles|2015-09-22T16:07:21-05:00July 22nd, 2011|Categories: Introverts and Highly Sensitive People, Spacious Artists|Tags: doing what you love, free spirit, heirarchies, High school heirarchies, living from within, self ranking, social status, Steven Pressfield, The War of Art|

I once held a friend’s hair back as she vomited at a sleepover. My friend, Laura, was not truly wanted at the party (and knew it) but the popular-girl hostess had been forced by her mother to invite her. The whole night had been awkward as Laura danced for the queen bee and her sidekick. While playing charades [...]

This is me. This is me from the day I was born. For so long I felt misunderstood and rejected, even by the people closest to me, because they could never understand my need for solitude, and I had no idea how to explain it to them. Even now that I know more about Introversion and have a more informed understanding of my hard-wired need for solitude, it’s still very difficult sometimes to help my loved ones understand this profound craving for time and space all to myself. This is one of the best… Read more

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