He is royally pissed off, and instead of lashing out, he has decided to spare you his vindictive tongue. They are ignoring you. we met online and been seeing each other for a month already. I felt like it was out of nowhere. Both times we have broken up it was under false pretenses. Scorpio moons push their loved ones away . With a simple press of a button, your mask comes to life, lighting the area around you in its pale golden glow. He will frequently experience anxiety, which might result in uneasy . Chapter 1: All bad things come to those who are just trying to go about their god damn day. I am always in doubt about our relationship longevity. Now i know he is so powerful , he is so confidence . Common personality traits and how they manifest in romance, Top reasons why he's off the grid and ignoring your texts, Explanations for his off-and-on behavior and sudden blow-ups, Important tips for cultivating a healthy relationship. Compared to the scorpio where evrything goes down to sex, not many questions..just flirting and dirty talks Hi there I am a Scorpio also a boy. I think the act of distancing himself is more painful than you realize and it probably takes extreme will to stay away. I really liked this hub. Mine always seems to have no time for me . I am crazy about this guy but if he keeps it up I'm going to have to let him go. Therefore, they pull away when they know they need to do some serious introspection. both of us want sex but somehow, i started to doubt him and realize i dont really just want sex. I would wait for him although as a Cancer I am really not good at waiting on people. P.S. I have a ton of gifts I have bought weeks before the break up for he, his daughter etc.. Yes, they do play games , but its just to feel you out and see your loyalty. If you do that, your scorp will notice with his freakish Empathic ways and it WILL make him want you way more! Even slight thought we catch in ya behavior that may lead to you cheating tho is enough for us to go cold on you. Such an amazing man and my rock! He may just be enjoying his alone time, pondering the meaning of life, or pouring himself into his passion projects. Once they have made a decision, they would go all guns blazing to accomplish what they want. I woke up the next day with him just going off his nut and blocking me on his facebok. Especially when i had fight wih my partner. I just recently started dating a Scorpio man, and I am a Capricorn woman. i know i;m not his priority. It may have to do with work or his family; you won't know until you ask him! I don't always know how to express my feelings and say things no matter how good at communicating I am. Spray an area 6 feet (2 yards) wide around the exterior of the house. He broke up with me over text about a week and 3 days ago. Anyway, we decided to meet up but it didn't end well; I arrived at our meeting place and he wasn't there so I texted him, but he said that I wasn't there so he went to hang out with a friend. They arent wrong in this assumption the people you spend your time with have an irrevocable impact on your quality of life, and sometimes ensuring that you only keep the right ones around is essential. "You are mine" is the message you'll receive when you're in your Scorpio man's lovin' arms. Libras are constantly at odds between what they want and what they thinkotherpeople want. it don't take just a few seconds to text someone and say good morning and how is your day. So we've been checking our snapchat stories which he only posted two and so did I. I feel like my situation is probably number 5 but sometimes I get a feeling he will try to contact me one day idk. What do you guys think??? I really wish u all well ladies and hope I helped a tad. These guys are paranoid, insecure, secretive and don't communicate. A month or so before meeting, he opened up a lot about his personal life to me, and it felt like I was finally getting to know him as a person. And so afraid that if I don't get a text every day, then he has stopped caring for me. I had my Life he had his own, all good. That's not easy to swallow. What should I do ? "I care for you, but I cant give this relationship what it needs" You will be fine. To you, you're only going to be worth loving when you are absolutely perfect. Just checked my words . Due to this, it's necessary to give him space. I am so glad to hear that everyone is having the same concerns. And yes, Scorpio women are quite similar to us Scorpio men in many things. Have some self respect and dump these crazy scorpio loser dudes who have self centered ness as their #1 ! There are definitely reasons why the Scorpio man stops communicating when you least expect it. <3 You have to be very careful when lying to a Scorpio man because he is excellent at reading people and will probably know intuitively when you are lying to him. Me and Scorpio make broke up after being together for 2 years. If you aren't sure about him, don't put up with his games. Your pup pushing you away can be a puzzling behavior and attempting to understand it can help you better care for your dog. I can't have him and no one else will ever interest me again. I called, text, even went over. We haven't been intimate and the bullshit has gone on for a year. We pick up where we left off. Sort of know if it will work out or not early on and dont want to play games anymore, but can still be attraction. Be there for him when he needs you. This could also be good as they have some common positive attributes. Any advice from other Scorpio men out there would be greatly appreciated. Make sure you're keeping up with your friends, your hobbies, and your career, and let him do the same. I was almost ready to give up on him until I read this article. Scorpios are driven to action by their ruling planets, Mars and Pluto. You may get an upset stomach. 5 You're too needy or clingy. We are holding back because we want to take in your love and see if ur the right person for us I think but really being a Scorpio is tough. We had plans to hang out but on the day of he bailed on me and hurt my feelings in doing so. First time he gave me the silent treatment I was a bit agitated with him because he kept calling me difficult and I got pissed and told him something mean like 'you better go back online and find an easy-going girl who had an easy life'. I felt really shitty after reading his long descriptive text. I know they behave negative but see them positive ! Even i cant meet any boy (friend) without his permission. We love each other so much, there is such Trust between us. Someone who is with me can never see it coming. I have known him fr 8 years Best friends that tend to flirt a lot. We have both been under work stress. Certainly, you should be remorseful for intentionally hurting someone you love. Utterly brave, passionate, and stubborn, you'll find yourself consumed if you're in love with a Scorpio. Fear Hits Him Fast. Geminis are social creatures, and need others to thrive. My brother is a scorp, a close friend is, I have it as my rising sign, so I catch ,myself holding many of these qualities as well. But when I called him, I said that this wasn't fair that he was making the decision alone and that we need to talk so he needs to come talk to me and he responded IMMEDIATELY with 'OK!'. He was super into me, to the point where he was almost stalking me (exactly what u mentioned above) although i really didn't mind. I just had the longest three days of my life. I told him i just wanted to hang out with him like we agreed and I felt like he was being immature. 1. i read here the Scorpio guy said "Also of pushing someone away as fear rejection so will self sabotage in order to control outcome, which sadly always ends in pain." What do I do?? i am with a scorpio boy , it's 13 months that we are with each other , yes i agree with all , he is so different with all , at first he flirted alot , after few month i fell in love with him & i told him & during the time this feel got more & more . If he tells you he likes or lives you and then disappears, find someone else! To read a Scorpio man like an open book, we highly suggest Relationship Astrologer Anna Kovach's Scorpio . Leo has a fear of being rejected and will often push people away before they can do it first. That's the exchange for them. I reciprocate but I don't take things to heart. And wish I could roll more mid field and not the spikes up and down constantly is really tiring. Contents hide. I cant figure out whats going on. Now he's gone. He will not talk about it and shuts right down. while he's missing in action, i found another guy online and this guy is just a year older(gemini). He messaged me a few days later and told me he had messed up and couldnt stop thinking about it so could we hang out again. I can't say anything to him. A delay in work from your colleague may push you to an edge and the rest of the day is going to be in your control. They might even play the victim card, so they can pull back from you, acting all hurt and devastated. A few times over the following three weeks, I came close to contacting him. In fact, a lot of introverted Cancers prefer to spend a lot of time by themselves just because of how over-stimulated they can be by other people especially those they really care about. It was a little confusing but I don't take what people say to heart. The King At Playing Mind Games. To everyone out there firstly, although I personally love my sunsign and I do think people possess certain core characteristics based on their sunsigns , you have to acknowledge the fact that every individual is complex and not binary ( I.e. The best advice I can give here is to communicate. But if we want to be alone don't feel bad we just need our space. All is forgiven; the dog can tell the difference between a purposefully placed foot and an accidental injury. When a Scorpio man is not interested anymore he doesn't want to know anything about you. My scorpio man sais he adores me etc I know he likes me very much a dis genuine but then he desapears for a few days then he comes back. For your number 5 reason he withdraws and decides to leave, I don't think its for lack of compassion. BUT i get irritated by his over caring and controlling nature. 1. Nothing serious well so he always said then one night about 3 weeks ago he messaged and asked if we could meet up I said yesthen I didn't hear from him so I assumed he had gotten busy so I just went to beddidn't think much of it. The only thing that you will do is push her further away, so you . They constantly test you. I mean we have made so many plans. 2010 The Thought & Expression Company, LLC. Scorpios are actually very committed and upfront people: when they love you, they will love you completely and forever. Here's where you'll be a maximizer, which can also lead to chronic dissatisfaction if you don't figure out when enough is enough. My point is, you may think it came out of nowhere, but he has been keeping track, and something tipped the scales. He is a Scorpio, sweet, caring, thoughtful, listening well, good Manners, a real Love Bug. As gemini once I feel things are changing I start worry. He wrote back and we exchanged a few messages after that, but I am just so confused as to what is going on in that head of his. So, I got pissed and send him many messages that were saying how much he hurt me by doing that but I was definitely a bit hysterical lol because on top of being a Cancer, I was starting to pms. Well for about a year he has changed. He may not be saying much, but I guarantee he is listening. If you hurt us, we will hold a grudge and let it build until we explode. If you want to know your weaknesses and vulnerabilities ask a Scorpio, they will tell you if they know you, or not. Without going into why he withdraws in the first place (more about that later), this is the best explanation I can give you for the stalker-to-stranger extremes. Ive been crazy about a Scorpio since the day we first met. That's the only measure of justice that makes sense in their eyes. However, this never lasts long. Never put them under pressure , they are so sensetive . Touch is a big way a Scorpio man expresses his love. Wish we will be together soon. I am the type that gets smothered when a guy is constantly blowing the messages up or calling. In the rest of this article, I will share with you the five main reasons why Scorpio man pulls away. There will be times when he's somewhere in between extremes, but it happens less frequently than with other signs.