Dear Sensitive Introvert: You Are Enough, You Are Lovable

Dear Sensitive Introvert: You Are Enough, You Are Lovable

Picture The Great Gatsby in the mountains. My man and I traveled to Montana for a spectacular weekend of lavish meals, sparkling socializing, serious hiking and serene fly-fishing. The first two days were mind-blowing. My brain buzzed joyfully and my body happily went along for the ride. By the third day my bright-eyedness started to wane. The constant presence of […]

Disclosing Yourself Through Sex: How Revealing Are You?

Disclosing Yourself Through Sex: How Revealing Are You?

…if sexual intimacy has to do with disclosing yourself through sex, people who can let themselves be known have more potential for profound sexual experiences. — Dr. David Schnarch, Passionate Marriage How willing to be known are you? Does intense intimacy scare you? As someone who seeks out intense intimacy and profound connection, Dr. Schnarch’s quote intrigues […]

How Does Introversion Affect Your Sexuality?: The Results from the Quickie Survey

At the end of June I wrote, How Does Introversion Affect Your Sexuality? It touched on  demi-sexuality, a sexual orientation that requires a deep emotional connection before  physical intimacy takes place. Physical attraction and magnetic personality are not enough to draw the demi-sexual. Since introverts are big on meaningful conversation and the sharing of dreamy inner worlds […]