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I met Brenda and took the MBTI… I had a fairly good understanding of these types before the meeting but was impressed by the depth of knowledge that Brenda shared with me. She clearly has a passion for this work and a gift in imparting the information. There have been doors opened for me because of our talks… — Alan Hintermeister
Alan Hintermeister

“I was struggling with my daughter (16 at the time) and our constant fighting. You said something to me that changed my life! You were speaking about your own situation and you said to me “my child could not handle my emotions”. This was a HUGE “lightbulb moment” for me and it forever changed the way I dealt with my emotions when I was around my daughter!

I am happy to say that things have never been better between my soon to be 18 year old daughter and myself! I honestly never thought we would…

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For the first time in my life I could truly explain, through your words the way in which I experience life and myself. Brenda… It all fell into place. I had found myself and had such a moment of clarity. It felt like such a big weight was lifted off of my shoulders. Finally I felt like it was ok to be me. I was not the only one. I had found people and a little space where I fit in. … I was at work and crying on the inside. Emotions ran wild inside me. I was ecstatic, sad, confused, motivated, i…
This is me. This is me from the day I was born. For so long I felt misunderstood and rejected, even by the people closest to me, because they could never understand my need for solitude, and I had no idea how to explain it to them. Even now that I know more about Introversion and have a more informed understanding of my hard-wired need for solitude, it’s still very difficult sometimes to help my loved ones understand this profound craving for time and space all to myself. This is one of the best…
Your words are my lifeline.  I sit down to your posts and as I read I can feel my acceptance of myself and my needs grow.  Your words validate my feelings about my life, motherhood, relationships and it is something I hold onto.  And during the times when I feel like I am not able to be a mother or a wife or a sister or a friend or whatever someone needs me to be, I go back to your words and find some peace…I send your posts to my husband when I need him to understand that I love him but I need …
During one of the harder times in my life I found Brenda’s website
and reached out to her. To say the least it has been one of the best
decisions I have made. Being an extrovert I never quite understood
what it meant to romantically involved with an introvert. Brenda does
an incredible job listening, giving in the moment feedback, and helped
me understand the how an introvert functions. She helped explain to me
that I am introspective extrovert, and this gave something to identify
with and allowed me t…
Evan H.
your depth of understanding, and talent at sharing it amaze me. Speechless… and for your sharing of it.. Thank you… deeply. *sigh, its like coming back into my body through acceptance….. Sherrie on space2live
I have been dating an introverted man who I am very in love with for almost 2 years.  Reading your posts have helped me to be more supportive and understanding to him especially during the times when he needs space.  I just wanted to thank you for your weekly posts and let you know how helpful they are for someone who is in a relationship with an introvert. C.M. on space2live
I think I want to print out your articles and hand them out as a sort of relationship waiver form. “You want to be my friend?….You are interesting in going out? Here read this first. Sign here to acknowledge that you have read and understand the enclosed material. Thank you.” Seriously. I think it would work. — Guerin Moorman
Guerin Moorman
BRENDA: thank you SO much! Your advice is exactly what I need to do. I am amazed how much you “get” me after only exchanging a few messages!… Again, I thank you from the bottom of my heart. You’ve helped me more than a year of therapy sessions! – Megan on space2live

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Link to Introverts and Intimacy Interview with Introvert Spring

If you want to hear a delightful discussion about dating and mating as an introvert, then please tune in to listen to my interview with Michaela of We’ll dish about introvert relationships and intimacy (emotional and physical).


Please click Sensual interview to listen on

Here’s the replay in case you missed it



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  1. […] and she brings up my interview with Michaela Chung, so there’s that too. […]

  2. […] How do introverts deal with intimacy?  Michaela Chung of Introvert Spring and Brenda Knowles of Space2live tackled the topic in a conversation earlier this month. […]

  3. Andy Mort (@atlumschema) August 13, 2014 at 2:45 am - Reply

    Great conversation Brenda. Loads of stuff that I had never even thought about before so thank you so much for doing this! 🙂

    • Brenda Knowles August 13, 2014 at 6:51 am - Reply

      I loved doing it. I know what it’s like to navigate the waters of intimacy as a sensitive introvert. I want others to feel understood and confident about their way of being. I have a lot of passion and compassion around this subject. 🙂 As a fellow introvert champion, I know you get it.:) Thanks for taking the time to listen and comment Andy.

  4. sheketechad August 10, 2014 at 9:35 pm - Reply

    You’re welcome 🙂

  5. sheketechad August 10, 2014 at 4:32 pm - Reply

    By the way Bren, I thought you did a great job today 🙂 I’d never heard Michaela before.

    • Brenda Knowles August 10, 2014 at 7:07 pm - Reply

      Thank you!! I appreciate that S.:)

    • Brenda Knowles August 10, 2014 at 9:26 pm - Reply

      I wish I would have spoken up and been louder but I didn’t know how it was going to sound until after it was done. Oh well! First one down. Lesson learned.;)

      • sheketechad August 10, 2014 at 9:28 pm - Reply

        I thought you both were well-modulated, particularly as the interview went on. It’s a nerve-wracking thing, what you did! I’d have probably forgotten and swore or something 😉

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