How much emotional and physical intimacy are you getting? Are you happy with that?
Are you emotionally drained or not sleeping well because of your relationship?
Would you like to understand yourself and your partner better?
Would you like to have the tools necessary for the most vibrant, healthy and loving relationship possible?
Whether you work with me alone or as a couple, I can help. Five years of writing and guiding on space2live, training as a family mediator and certification as a Myers-Briggs practitioner, have all given me the experience to offer you assistance, encouragement and suggestions.
Long-time couples often forget what it’s like to share a secret smile across the room. They forget what talking for hours then making love feels like. I love helping couples see each other differently. I would like very much to help you bring affection and ease back to your relationship.
Yes, it can be done even with dual careers, child rearing and hectic schedules.
Have you been dating for a while, but are not sure how or if you should take it to the next level? Are there things you struggle with when communicating with your partner? I would love to help you gain clarity within your relationship. I enjoy helping couples learn about each other using neutral language and positive encouragement. I have the tools to help you see your partner in a different light.
What I offer is:
The beginning of an exploration of each other and your relationship
A chance to get your relationship on track to mutual growth
I understand the need for each person to maintain personal integrity. I believe this can be done in the context of a loving relationship.
Going beyond the everyday to the extraordinary, that’s what I do. Rather than only dwelling on the problems in the relationship, I help reveal the potential in each person and then use that awareness to revitalize the relationship. I uncover understanding while helping to create a new wave of intimacy for each couple. Beginning with the Myers Briggs Personality Type assessment, I will help each of you understand the way the other thinks, makes decisions, handles stress and shows love. I will guide you to a deeper connection with your partner. The relationship and the future of both individuals are the focus. Emotional and physical intimacy are the gifts that arise from the newfound awareness.
When the love is gone
I believe in people and relationships and their infinite potential, but sometimes their is no reconciling a love that is lost. If individuals within a relationship cannot be their true selves, do not have each other’s backs or are not willing to learn and grow together then it is better to end a relationship and go forward on their own.
As difficult as this process of dissolution is, there are ways to make the transition easier. I am trained in family mediation and parenting plan expedition. I can guide you through the actual breakup or divorce process from support during legal proceedings to creating a healthy parenting plan to picking up the pieces emotionally and moving on once the dust has settled. I believe people and families can evolve post-divorce or breakup.